- "Matching" means two coordinating pendants worn one each — heart, infinity, sun-and-moon, puzzle piece, or personalized initials are the most common symbols
- You don't need a literal split-in-half pendant to "match" — two identical pieces read the same way and are easier to wear solo
- 925 sterling silver with 18K gold plating stays hypoallergenic for two people with different skin sensitivities
- Plan on roughly $50-$160 total for a pair, or $25-$80 per person, with personalized pieces at the higher end
- AJLuxe's Pink Heart Pendant Necklace ($25.99) is the lowest-cost matching-friendly option; the Heart Initial Necklace ($34.39) lets each friend wear her own letter on a matching design
Matching necklaces are one of the most gifted best-friend items going into 2026, but "matching" doesn't have to mean identical. Whether you split one symbol between two people, buy the same pendant in the same finish, or personalize otherwise-matching pieces with each other's initials, the goal is jewelry that visibly ties two people together. Here's how to choose the right symbol, the right budget, and a pair you'll both actually wear every day.
What to Get Matching With Your Best Friend?
Get two coordinating pendants built around one shared symbol — a heart, an infinity loop, a sun-and-moon pair, or each other's initials — rather than two identical, mass-produced charms that feel generic. The symbol should mean something specific to your friendship (an inside joke, how long you've known each other, how different or alike your personalities are), because that's what makes a matching necklace feel like a gift and not a gimmick. Materials matter too: if one of you has sensitive ears or skin, look for hypoallergenic metal like 925 sterling silver rather than plain plated base metal, so the necklace doesn't tarnish or irritate skin within weeks.
What Jewelry Symbolizes Friendship?
Hearts, infinity symbols, sun-and-moon pairs, puzzle pieces, and coin or token pendants are the five symbols most associated with friendship jewelry, and each signals a slightly different kind of bond.
| Symbol | What It Signals | Best For | Price Tier |
|---|---|---|---|
| Heart | Straightforward affection and closeness | Best friends who want something simple and easy to layer | Budget-friendly |
| Infinity | An unending, eternal bond | Friendships that have already lasted years | Mid-range |
| Sun & Moon | Two different halves that complete a whole | Friend duos with opposite personalities | Mid-range |
| Puzzle Piece | "You complete the group" | Friend groups of three or more | Mid-range |
| Initial / Letter | Personalized identity within a shared design | Friends who want their own name represented | Mid-range |
What Is the Best Friend Necklace?
A best friend necklace is any pendant style designed to be worn as a pair, where each piece is either identical, mirrored, or personalized so the connection reads clearly when the two of you are together. The trend traces back to the friendship-bracelet culture of decades past and has moved into fine jewelry as tastes shifted toward pieces you can wear every day, not just novelty items for a single event. Today's versions lean toward pieces that also work as everyday jewelry on their own — a heart or infinity pendant should look complete and intentional even on days your best friend isn't around to wear its match.
What Is the Friendship Necklace for Two Best Friends?
The classic friendship necklace for two best friends is a split-pendant design — one motif, like a heart or coin, divided into two pieces so each friend wears half and the two only look whole side by side. AJLuxe doesn't currently stock a literal split-in-half pendant, but the same idea works with two identical pieces instead: a Pink Heart Pendant Necklace bought as a pair reads as "matching" without needing a cut-in-half design, and it sidesteps the most common complaint about split pendants — that a single half looks unfinished when your friend isn't wearing hers next to you.
How Much Should You Spend on Matching Best Friend Necklaces?
Plan on roughly $50-$160 total for a pair of matching best friend necklaces, or about $25-$80 per person, with personalized initial pieces landing toward the higher end and simple identical pendants at the lower end. AJLuxe's full necklace range runs $24.99-$79.99 in 925 sterling silver with 18K gold plating, so a matching pair rarely pushes past $160 even at the premium end. Because both pieces are hypoallergenic, you don't have to spend more to accommodate a friend with sensitive skin — the same $25.99-$34.39 pieces that suit everyday wear also suit sensitive ears and skin.
Which Matching Necklace Should You and Your Best Friend Pick?
If you want the simplest, lowest-risk option, buy two of the Pink Heart Pendant Necklace ($25.99) in 925 sterling silver — it's AJLuxe's most affordable matching-friendly piece, and being hypoallergenic, it holds up to daily wear for both of you regardless of skin sensitivity. If you'd rather each wear something unmistakably yours while still coordinating in style, the Heart Initial Necklace ($34.39) lets you and your best friend each choose your own letter on the same heart-pendant design, so the pieces match without being identical. Both ship gift-ready, which matters if you're planning to surprise her with hers.

Frequently Asked Questions
What to get matching with your best friend?
Get two coordinating pendants around one symbol — hearts, infinity loops, sun-and-moon pairs, or personalized initials are the most popular choices, and picking hypoallergenic metal like 925 sterling silver means both of you can wear it daily without irritation.
What is the best friend necklace?
A best friend necklace is a pendant style meant to be worn as a pair, where the two pieces are identical, mirrored, or personalized so the bond is visible when you're together, while each piece still looks complete worn alone.
What jewelry symbolizes friendship?
Hearts, infinity symbols, sun-and-moon pairs, puzzle pieces, and coin or token pendants are the jewelry symbols most associated with friendship, each representing a slightly different kind of connection between two people.
What is the friendship necklace for two best friends?
The classic friendship necklace for two best friends is a split-pendant design, where one motif like a heart or coin is divided so each friend wears half and the two pieces only look complete together.
How much do matching best friend necklaces cost?
Matching best friend necklaces typically run $50-$160 for a pair, or roughly $25-$80 per person, with simple identical pendants at the lower end and personalized pieces like initial charms toward the higher end.
Do matching necklaces have to be identical?
No — matching necklaces just need to coordinate visually, so two pieces with the same finish, size, or symbol (even personalized with different initials) still read as a matched set.
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